The new Social worker's coming tomorrow 2 do the review 4 my hours and care plan, so which us luck on getting more than 29 and a half hrs; i've cum 2 the conclusion if i loose direct payments its not the end of the world. As i've still got Aidan and my friends, at the end of the day thats all that matters; ok i won't have as much choice of who i get 2 do my care. But at least i will still have my independence and i won't have the worry of social services being on my back every month, cos the audits aren't in on time; u might think i'm giving up but i promiss u that i'm not. I wud just rather loose direct payments than Aidan, as this has put alot of stress on both of us.
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- 04/09/06 @ 15:08:45
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- 06/09/06 @ 11:02:36
Yes - It's not so pleasant living your life to satisfy an anonymous organisation which doesn't have a heart! Bloody frustrating usually.
I'm glad you kept your cool. A love of another human-being, in this case Aidan, is worth more than all the stress and anxiety. But I do not underestimate that stress, because sometimes it nearly destroys a relationship. Take Care.
Hope all can be sorted by you both.
Wifey.
Very best of luck - hope it turns out as you need and want.